This afternoon I had the pleasure of officiating my second wedding ceremony since being ordained by the Pentecostal Assemblies of Canada in May of 2009. As with my first wedding, my wife was also a bridesmaid and so the experience was all the more special as we shared it together.

The couple that was married (Brandon & Nancy) are great friends of both Mandy and I; the time we spent together doing the pre-marital prep and planning the wedding ceremony were certainly highlights over the past few months.

Since I have only had the opportunity to speak at two weddings I do not have a terrible amount of experience with this; however, both times I have shared thoughts concerning love, marriage, and commitment in the real world. These thoughts have emerged from the Scriptures and have certainly challenged some views of love present in our popular culture. Here are some excerpts of what I shared this afternoon:

 

…The portrait of love as portrayed in the word of God (1 Corinthians 13) seems almost as if it were a fairy tale. Who would not want to be on the receiving end of love like this: love that never get easily angered…love that keeps no record of wrongs…love that always trusts and always perseveres…when we look deeper into this kind of love described in the Scriptures we realize that if we are expecting to receive that quality of love we must also be individuals who give that kind of love; herein lies the problem…

 

…Though Scripture records that it was Eve who was first tempted by the serpent to disobey the only law of their society, Adam did not appear to hold this against her or against their relationship…despite the wrong the Eve had committed – a wrong that would have severe consequences for Adam as well – Adam still protected Eve on the verge of her original sin being confronted…

 

…The words of Saint Peter as recorded in his first book, chapter 4 verse 8, are especially pertinent…Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. There will be days when you will get on each other’s nerves…there have likely already been those days. There will be days when you will say and do things that you will need to apologize for and the other will need to forgive…

 

…Let nothing and no one come between the vows and the bond that you are making today. Do not let yourselves be your own stumbling blocks and continually strive for that perfect ideal of love found in the Scriptures…

 

My prayer is that Brandon and Nancy will have many years of blessings and happiness and that God will grant them the strength and courage to overcome the days when the sun does not shine so that they can be an inspiration to all of those who come after them…and perhaps a few who have gone before.

Congrats guys!

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